Things that goes through my head when at work

There was a point in life where I felt like I was having a midlife crisis at around the age of 30+. It was about the same time where I was unable to bear to be where I was and I was living a life that was not me. I then got a very good advice that everyone should have in a relationship. Do not have a list of what you want in a partner but a list of things that your partner cant break or be against. That is a great advice that I took thanks to ‘The millionaire matchmaker’. Who thought that information from reality tv can actually be used in real life.

When I got to know my now husband, I had to ask him my unbreakable. I still remember the day and where I was. I was in Oslo eating at HRC and I gave him mine. He answered me honestly and we had the same fundamental believes that would make a union between us easier for us. It has been true and it has given me the peace of mind that I did not have with the x.

I have never dated and if anyone were to ask me how do you find a life partner I would I no idea how to tell them as both times it was they who found me. What I know is I like to get to know people, what makes them tick and what makes them who they are. People are an interesting breed for me as I have no idea how they work and as for men, I have given up trying to understand them. As for other females, I honestly don’t get many of them even though we are of the same gender! So basically what I know is I do not know anything!

I can basically say

• I do not understand males/females/humans.
• Having a person who has same values and interests makes life a whole lot easier.
• The older I get the more I realize I do not understand many things.
• You cannot help someone who does want to be helped.
• I should stop buying cakes from the store unless its from the bakery as I really do not like them.
• Seeing a young person go through life and knowing that they are doing the wrong things in life and yet its their fate to go through the journey so that they will be wiser when they are older.
• Getting a hug from a loved one when you really need one is priceless.